Get a leg up in your custody case!

This well-known book helps get you out of your head and back to your old self–but renewed. It’s so key, even during a custody battle, to work on recovery from abuse

So often a disordered co-parent will accuse the healthier parent of “mental instability” or lack of “mental health.” We love this book because it helps prepare for court AND for healing.

Such an interesting idea, to rethink this. But here, we like that this helps deal with having a narcissist parent or family member you cannot always avoid–and perhaps personally need to come to terms with.

It’s amazing that the teachings in this book still stand, and yet they truly do. For those who believe that their family of origin has contributed to a lack of boundaries.

We love this book so much for any client who has been assigned a GAL or evaluator in their case. Any parent who applies the methods in this book exponentially increase their chances of their kids reporting them as an amazing, caring, firm but loving parent.

Out of all the books on “parental alienation”*, our Founder, Reneé Rodriguez, recommends this one as the best. It helps overcome your co-parent’s attempts to turn the kids against you, and it helps you to ensure you are not accidentally “alienating” the kids.

Abusive men can make you feel trapped and persecuted. Bancroft explains what you are dealing with.

In Maralee’s own words: “In Prosecuted but not Silenced, Maralee McLean exposes the dirty secret that most of the public is blissfully unaware of.” We love when we get a chance to hear Maralee speak and tell the story of losing her daughter–in spite of disclosures–to her abusive father.

Narcissistic parents tend to be at a loss when they need to “discipline” toddlers. Healthier parents understand what toddlers need…and if you’re unsure, this book is a beautiful guide to a loving relationship with your littlest ones.

The chapters on WHERE THEY HIDE MONEY AND ASSETS alone is worth the price of this thoughtful, supportive, and immensely helpful book.  Either in family court or post-divorce, there is an immense amount to gain from this book.

We love how the inimitable Tina Swithin does not just work to change the way the family court system works, but also how to help coercively controlled children from within. 

We recommend parents read this themselves before giving it to their teens.  Our founder, Reneé Rodriguez, found this book to be profoundly heartbreaking but absolutely something older kids can relate to, as a fictional story of children who grew up in an abusive household, told in a series of secret letters written between the teen who fled…and the child who remained.

Many of our clients have liked this book as a simple basis for how mediators work, and how to be the “collaborative” one in negotiations with a co-parent whose single goal in life seems to be to say NO to everything you ask for.

We think the moms we work with like this book because it leans into research, like we do.  It also looks at different types of abuse.  If you still feel trauma bonded to your abuser, this book may help.

No matter how you feel about the term “parental alienation,” if you’re suffering from your children being turned against you, you’ll do anything to get them back.  This is one of the books we have found has helped some of the parents we’ve worked with.

 Free yourself from the invisible chains of emotional abuse. “Invisible Chains” provides practical strategies and support for survivors of coercive control.  Recognize the signs, reclaim your autonomy, and rebuild your life with confidence. You deserve freedom.

A relationship with a narcissist is a toxic nightmare. “It’s Not You” helps you identify narcissistic abuse, heal from the trauma, and break free from toxic patterns. Reclaim your life and find peace.

This children’s book gently explores the challenges of divorce and shared custody through the eyes of a child. This heartwarming story offers comfort, stability, and a reminder of the unwavering love that remains, even as kids go back and forth between houses.

A bit higher end and far more subtle, this can be used without anyone knowing it’s there, and can easily go along with you during exchanges, appointments with your co-parent, etc.

Place it on a desk or in a book, and keep an eye on your child’s safety.

More and more, our clients are finding that their homes and vehicles are being tracked. This Anti-Spy Detector will help you discover what may be installed around you.

Some parents prefer to have more than one Blink Indoor Camera in their home. You can order a set of multiple cameras if that is more useful to you.

A few things to note about this Hidden Camera Power Bank: one, it is an actual mobile charger, which is great; two, there are blinking lights to get it to record. However, our solution to this is to simply plug in your charging cord at the same time so it seems like that is what is triggering the lights. With some coordination, this can be ok if safety is a consideration.

With unlimited talk and text but no internet, social media, time-sucking games, or unsafe apps, Gabb Phone is the ideal first phone for kids. It provides your kids with everything they need to stay safely connected, but nothing they don’t.  Use code BLUEPRINT to catch a sale in case one is going on right now!

The watch is easy to use and is designed for kids aged 5 to 11. A kindergartener can easily navigate it and call parent, grandparents, or anyone else that a parent adds to the approved list of numbers. Gabb watches come with their own phone number: You don’t need an extra phone line through another provider to connect it to. Use code BLUEPRINT to catch a sale in case one is going on right now!

Big Life Journal is a science-based guided journal designed to help children develop a growth mindset and social-emotional learning (SEL) skills. It is available in versions for different age groups. It is based on the latest research in positive psychology, brain science, and youth development. Parents say that the journal has helped their children to be more self-aware, confident, and resilient.

Our founder loves to wear this nicely-shaped t-shirt every October during DV Awareness Month. It feels like a symbol of survival and a statement against domestic abuse. Wear it with pride, spark conversations, and inspire healing. You are not alone.

Speak your truth. Inspire change. These Domestic Violence Awareness stickers are a powerful symbol of solidarity and healing. Share them, raise awareness, and help break the silence. Your voice matters.

Celebrate your resilience. This tumbler is a daily reminder of your journey and the strength you’ve found. Carry it with pride and stay hydrated on your path to healing and empowerment.

Transform your car into a moving message of hope. We love how this license plate frame raises awareness and declares our commitment to a future free from abuse. Drive with pride and inspire change!

Carry a symbol of your strength. This keychain is a daily reminder of your resilience and courage. It’s a source of inspiration on your journey to healing and a powerful statement that you are not alone.