The Custody Blueprint®

Evidence, Strategy and Mindset.

That’s The Custody Blueprint®.

 

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You feel like you might even lose custody of your children.

As a protective parent in a custody battle, you may feel like you are constantly seeking a way to get your high-conflict co-parent to stop disrupting your schedule, your kids’ routines, and the sense of security of everyone in your family.
If you are going to court to get help, you need to be careful and thoughtful.
You must be sure of gathering the right evidence.
Knowing that it’s crucial to go in with the mindset the court likes to see in a healthy parent.
How much easier would all of this be if you had the right support system in place, so you can:

 

  • Save money
  • Shorten the length of your custody case,
  • Make it easier on your children
  • and get the custody arrangement you want?

Here is the reality:

You need to be completely, utterly prepared for each and every court appearance and negotiation, because the outcome of every single meeting can quickly become a permanent piece of the final custody arrangement.

01.  You feel you need to find a way to get out from under the intimidation and aggression your co-parent saturates every email and text with.

02.  You are unsure how to protect your children from a contentious co-parent who is trying to turn your kids against you.

03.  Your boss might not be so understanding about how often you need to take off work to meet with your lawyer, go to court appearances, and attend mediation meetings.

04. Your kids might be affected by all the anger and blaming your co-parent is throwing at you and the anxiety you are experiencing.

Be ready for whatever is thrown at you during your custody case. Access The Custody Blueprint®.

88%

of custody agreements are determined in court.

27%

of divorced parents have no contact with their children.

85-90%

of judges award custody based on the custody evaluator’s recommendation.

How To Work With Us

Done-For-You Engagement

White Glove for Us, Hands Off for You

Hand off all of your evidence, correspondence and documentation and allow our expert team and founder Reneé Rodriguez to prepare your evidence binder and other documents you will give to family court professionals. Weekly meetings with us ensure the work is moving forward at its best, and the rest of your time is spent focusing on your job and what else is going on in your life–and being present with your children.

The Custody Blueprint® Program

Our Flagship Program for Women

This popular 9-week program is the main way we work with protective moms.  It includes weekly modules leading you through all aspects of preparing for a court evaluation, including weekly group coaching in both mindset and also strategy, private community membership, almost-daily help as you need it, and forever access to the modules and resources.  With a 90% success rate, this may well be the way for you to go.

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For the Self-Represented Parent

Our newest offering was a year in the making to ensure the right elements are there for parents who are fighting their custody battle without a lawyer.  Whether you cannot afford a lawyer, or feel better off Our newest offering was a year in the making to ensure the right elements are there for parents who are fighting their custody battle without a lawyer.  Whether you cannot afford a lawyer, or feel better off

My lawyer said he could put something together but it will take him hours that I probably don’t want to pay for. And he likes the way mine was done–using your Blueprint. – B.R.

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Does this sound like you?

1 | You fear losing custody to a controlling, narcissistic co-parent.

The abuser’s playbook is to accuse the protective parent of mental instability, mental illnesses, “parental alienation”, and maybe even the very abuse they themselves perpetrate.  It’s time to learn how to not appear in a way that fulfills their narrative of you, and how to show the court who your ex is–behind closed doors.

2 | You think you hired the wrong lawyer, because there is no real strategy in sight.

Is your lawyer winging it? Do you feel lost in the family court process with no clear strategy? A strong case strategy is crucial in custody cases involving narcissistic or abusive ex-partners. Don’t settle for uncertainty. Learn how to partner strongly with your lawyer so your case moves in the right direction.

3 | The constant court appearances are draining your resources.

Is your abuser weaponizing the court system? Constant hearings and motions can drain your finances and emotional energy, keeping you trapped in conflict. Protect your children and your peace. Learn how to navigate the system strategically and fight for the stability you deserve.

4 | Your ex is harassing and intimidating you and the court doesn’t seem to care.

Post-separation abuse has become your co-parent’s new mission in life. Yet the court just sees this as an emotional parent simply missing their children and being affected by the case–whereas you know your ex is truly this way.

5 |Your kids are being turned against you, yet you are the one being accused of alienation.

Whenever your children return from your co-parent’s house, they are dysregulated and their behavior is not like them. And often they don’t want to go visit with the abusive parent…which then gets blamed on you.

6 | The court professionals assigned to your case buy into your ex’s charming personality.

Whether it’s the guardian ad litem (GAL) or a parent coordinator, it doesn’t seem to matter–they’re all impressed by your controlling parent’s “sincerity.”  And it seems like everything you say just sounds like pettiness in their eyes

Get control of your life and transform your custody case.

Why Choose Us?

Our team is made up of protective parents like you who have been through this type of custody battle. And they are led by a Strategist–that makes all the difference in the world.

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About Me

Hi, I am Renee’, the Founder of The Custody Blueprint Program. I help parents in a custody battle against a narcissistic co-parent to go into family court and get the custody arrangement that’s best for their kids.  With a long and winding, combined career path of being a teacher, administrator, entrepreneur, strategist, coach and instructional designer, I have spent a lot of time successfully learning to zero in on how to transform situations into a new reality that brings peace to people’s lives and helps them achieve what they are setting out to do.

It was my own custody battle, after escaping a mentally abusive relationship, that transformed my life’s direction. Winning custody of my son taught me something profound: success in court demands a careful blend of Strategy, Mindset, and Evidence—even when facing a barrage of lies and manipulation. Through The Custody Blueprint® tools and programs, I now guide others through the emotional maze of custody battles, addressing the shame, guilt, and helplessness that so many experience. My approach is built on using truth, evidence and virtue as your strongest allies in court.

This is the battle of your life, and every step needs to be navigated very carefully.

What People Are Saying

It’s amazing that you saw all of that from this. You are so gifted. I totally can see that now.

M. F.

After just a couple of months I am doing things I NEVER thought I was capable of, I am getting things I never thought I would stand a chance at getting (such as every other weekend or even this phone number). Every win that may seem “small” to someone else feels HUGE to me.

C.H.

I’m so glad to have had your help - I truly don’t think I would have gotten through my mediation without your Blueprint and advice. That was the magic that sealed the whole thing.

N.H.

I was struggling to find a way to organize my evidence and present it in a way that would be compelling to anyone who read it. I was afraid I wouldn't be able to relay the most important information in a way that didn't make me look petty and like I was just complaining. Renee presented a clear plan on how I could do that and helped me understand what the court officials really needed to see.

M.M.

Renee was extremely helpful to me in organizing my case for court. The strategy sessions helped me focus on relevant points and the templates allowed me to streamline my evidence to help the judge see the full picture. My lawyer was able to easily use the talking points I provided and it helped me get the result that was best for me and my children. I highly recommend Renee!

L.W.

My lawyer said he could put something together but it will take him hours that I probably don’t want to pay for. And he likes the way mine was done–using your Blueprint.

B.R.

Even if someone doesn’t win their case, you’ve had a hand in helping that woman and giving her some sense of hope, and certainly giving her knowledge to move forward with that will impact the way she raises or interacts with her children.

H.C.

You are making the kind of difference that frankly, is one of a kind. You are a pioneer, making a new way for women, children, victims, survivors.

H.C.

I can't thank you enough for all your wise counsel throughout this process. I still think you're the MVP in my case!

M.F.

The judge ordered my residence to be primary and my daughter to attend kindergarten with me!! I cannot thank you enough for all of your help as you helped me draft up my affidavit and response and put everything together. Thank you for all that you do!!

T.B.

You have never let me walk this path alone. You’ve held my hand throughout my journey . You’ve brought light into the darkest corner of my heart and gave it light.

E.S.

I know 100% that all the materials we created for the custody evaluator were instrumental with my hearing. My attorney said she wished all her clients were this organized with text messages, videos and the video call spreadsheet.

P.H.

I cannot put into words what you have done for me…when i came to you I was in such confusion and you helped me get organized and focused and at the same time helped me grieve and go through the pain of what happened to me but then emerge as a much stronger person because of it!

P.S. (male)

I hired Renee for coaching at the beginning of the private parenting investigation in March and followed her methods, and yesterday the evaluation came back very highly in my favor!

O.H.

God do more people need to know about this. I spent way over 100K on attorneys, and I wish I knew about this way before. I would’ve saved so much money AND tears.

N.S.

Celebrating another courtroom win! Thanks Renee Rodriguez for all that you do and the tools you have created.

A.G.

Hooray!!! My custody case is officially, finally OVER! I was awarded “tie-breaking authority” for medical, education and mental health decisions! That was the biggest “win” I was fighting for. Thank you, Renee Rodriguez, for your PATIENT, strategic coaching that helped me present a clear case for this to be awarded in my favor.

G.A.

We are happy, healthy, peaceful and safe because of you.

A.P.

I have tie-breaking authority on all legal issues. I got all my must-haves. It doesn’t feel real. 3 years! FINALLY out of custody limbo. Thank you, Renee Rodriguez, for EVERYTHING!!!!!!

G.A.

I just wanted to extend my gratitude. I still have much to work on but I feel like on a game board my character jumped halfway through this battle on that board, with more knowledge, confidence and control, and ready to be that warrior for myself and my beautiful daughter. Thank you forever!

L.E.

I wanted to let you know that we had trial in October for divorce. I got everything I wanted and the judge saw through every game that my ex tried to play during trial!! He did his best to paint me as manipulative, controlling, an alcoholic, etc. and the judge didn't believe any of it and called it all out in her findings. I am elated! I know this was in large part due to YOU for all of the templates and guidance you offered during our individual sessions together!!

T.B.

Renee, your program is genius. I have had some RICH, HEALING experiences because of your program, and because of Achara in tandem with my other therapists. The shroud of doom is starting to clear, and with that comes some acceptance, power, gratitude, and clarity.

J.W.

Your advocacy and relentless efforts to help other moms to get through the most challenging time of their lives is really admirable and it has been one of the most rewarding and inspirational experiences of my life.

C.P. (Staff Member)

You have a brilliant mind. It's a mitzvah that you choose to do this work. You are helping parents and children in life-changing ways.

O.P. (Staff Member)

A million thanks for your advice, support, edits, and strategy this past week. This journey has been less challenging with your wise counsel.

C.R. (Staff Member)

Conquer Your Case

Evidence

Volume of evidence isn’t what wins–having a lot of evidence just means you need to narrow it down to your main concerns and then carefully select what matters to the court.  We can help with that.

Mindset

Understanding how to tell your story, overcoming anxiety, and showing up disproving your co-parent’s false narrative about you–that’s key.  We carefully assess how you need to show up,, based on your specific case.

Strategy

Having evidence and mindset in place isn’t enough without a solid, powerhouse strategy to ensure each step of your case is going in the right direction. We help you plan so that you aren’t scrambling whenever your ex tries to manipulate the system.

“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”

———— Dan Pink, Author of The Power of Regret

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